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We’re milking fall for all it’s got with these cover photos… Trying to delay what comes next.
Photo Credit: A. Chen Photography

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Whenever I’m sad or scared or angry or excited or confused, I write. I don’t always recognize that that’s what I’m doing; sometimes my writing is in the form of a letter that I never send to someone I’ve hurt or who’s hurt me, sometimes it’s a quick note jotted down at the end of a long day, but often it’s just a composition in my head as I fall asleep. Now I have you beautiful people, who are kind enough to read the things I write and give me an outlet. So while many people far more eloquent than I have already given and will continue to give you their thoughts on this election, I find myself putting pen to paper (or in this case, fingers to keys). I hope that something I say will help you, but if it doesn’t, please know that just by reading this, you’re helping me. And for that I thank you.
America made a mistake on Tuesday night. It isn’t the first mistake we’ve made and it certainly won’t be the last, but knowing that doesn’t make it hurt less. On Tuesday night, I was too shocked to feel anything. I’d spent all day Tuesday feeling alternately slightly nervous and elated that we would soon be electing our first female president. I didn’t in any way prepare for the possibility that that might not happen. I know I’m not the only one.
Yesterday, the numbness wore off. I held back tears as I drove to work. I excused myself to the bathroom and stood in a stall and cried silent tears after reading highlights from Hillary Clinton’s concession speech. I talked to coworkers and family and friends. I felt better, I felt worse, I felt depressed, and I felt hopeful. I turned on the radio on my drive home, heard a couple songs with especially resonant lyrics, and sobbed in my car. As I write this, my eyes are burning with spent as well as unfallen tears.
I suspect that many of the people reading this – maybe even everyone – are Hillary Clinton voters, or at the very least Never Trumpers, so I’m speaking to you. I’ve heard a lot about how this is the end of America as we know it, how the results Tuesday night spell the end of democracy and civil discourse, how we’d all be better off leaving the country. These things are only true if we let them be. Tuesday night was not a loss, but a setback. It’s a sign that a new fight is beginning, and just as we’ve won fights in the past to end slavery, grant women the right to vote, and end segregation, so too shall we win this fight. This is not the end. It is the beginning of a new fight.
It’s easy to see Tuesday’s results as a victory for hate – racism, xenophobia, misogyny, homophobia, etc. have been everywhere in this election. I can’t tell you that people didn’t vote based on hatred, because many people did. But for many more, their votes for Trump on Tuesday night were about fear. Fear that their children will be worse off than they are. Fear that they’re being left behind. Fear of terrorism in general and ISIS in particular. Many Trump voters aren’t hateful, they’re just terrified.
Now the tables have turned and it’s us who are fearful. I won’t tell you that you shouldn’t be; hate crimes may raise as they did in the UK following Brexit, no one knows what the next four years will hold, and these are uncertain and scary times. Be vigilant and stay safe. But what I will tell you is this: Don’t let your fear make you small. Don’t let it control you. Don’t let it make you afraid to speak out against injustice. Don’t let it make you hold back because you think you can’t make a difference. Don’t let it cause you to pull the blinds and pretend the world outside isn’t there.
This election was awful. Take all the time you need to grieve. Scream, vent, punch a pillow, wallow, binge-watch your favorite tv show, and cry. Cry for all the dreams you thought you’d see come true that now have to wait a little longer. Cry for your minority friends and family who are as scared as they’ve ever been. Cry for all the people who made a rash decision based on fear. And then pick yourself up off the mat and live to fight another day.
I know there’s a lot of talk about 2020, but remember that midterm elections are a big part of how we got into this mess. 2018 will be an important year. Show up, knock doors, make calls, donate, talk to your family and friends and make sure they vote, work the polls, and if you’re in a position to do so, run for office yourself. We don’t have to put up with this for four years if we can take back the Senate, or even the House, in 2018. And in the meantime, do all that you can to make the world a better, kinder, more generous place. Tell your family and friends you love them. Explain to the Trump-supporters in your life why you’re upset and then try to forgive them. Donate to or volunteer with the organizations that will be fighting for the causes you care about.
This is not the end, people. This is a new beginning. And we have work to do.
– Carley
Remember to vote today!
If you haven’t already voted (we love no-excuse early voting!) then today is the day to make your voice heard! This is going to be an “anything can happen” election, so Blue States might not necessarily go blue and Red States might not necessarily go red, so go out and cast your vote!
A couple of reminders for Election Day:
1.) As long as you are in line before the polling place closes, you are legally allowed to vote. If anyone tries to tell you otherwise and tries to get you to leave, call them out on it and do not leave the line.
2.) Many states now require a photo ID to vote. Please check and see if your state is included. You don’t want to forget your ID and end up not being able to vote.
3.) If you need a ride, ask your family and friends, and if you can’t find one, don’t just throw in the towel. Google. Lots of local campaign or party offices will help find you a ride to the polls if you need.
4.) There is no campaigning allowed within 100 ft. of a polling place (in some states the boundary may be less than 100 ft). If someone is trying to influence or intimidate you on your way into the polls, ignore them, head on inside, and report them to a poll worker.
Also, a couple things to keep in mind so you don’t get into trouble when you head out to vote:
1.) Do not wear any political paraphernalia to your polling place as you can be turned away for this. This includes t-shirts, hats, buttons, stickers, etc. As mentioned above, you are not allowed to campaign within a certain distance of a polling place and wearing political clothing counts as campaigning.
2.) I know you’re proud of your vote (as you should be), but please remember not to take a picture of your ballot. Depending on your state, this could be illegal and/or negate your vote.
Finally, if you have any issues or witness any voting violations and your poll workers aren’t willing to step in, you can report violations to the Civil Rights Division of the Department of Justice. You can do that here or you can call 800-253-3931. The DOJ can send poll watchers to make sure the system is working properly. As they say, if you see something, say something.
Trump voters: Don’t forget, according to your candidate you guys vote on November 28th. So you can go ahead and wait.
Incase you didn’t plan ahead yesterday, here’s some information for you to figure out where to vote and what will be on your ballot…
For finding your polling location/hours:
– This site doesn’t always have all of the information you need right on the site, but for every state it gives you the link to your state’s government election page for more information. Granted, some states have much more comprehensive election pages than others, but you should at least be able to find your polling place.
– This site is a little more comprehensive in its own right, but doesn’t have all the information for every state. However, this site does link you to more information about the candidates, which is kind of cool.
For finding out what will be on your ballot:
If the two sites above do not show you what will be on your ballot, you can locate that information here. It’s good to know this ahead of time, so you can go into your polling place prepared.
Happy Voting!
-Lianna & Carley-
Remember to vote tomorrow!
If you haven’t already voted (We love early voting!) then today is the day to make your plan and get ready to vote tomorrow. Every vote counts. Whether you believe that or not, it’s true. Even if you don’t live in a swing state, it’s important that you go out to vote because a lot of Senate, House, and local seats are on the line, as well as referendums on issues like minimum wage, gun laws, and marijuana legalization. Not to mention this is going to be an “anything can happen” election, so Blue States might not necessarily go blue and Red States might not necessarily go red.
A couple reminders for Election Day:
1.) As long as you are in line before the polling place closes, you are legally allowed to vote. If anyone tries to tell you otherwise and tries to get you to leave, call them out on it and do not leave the line.
2.) Many states now require a photo ID to vote. Please check and see if your state is included. You don’t want to forget your ID and end up not being able to vote.
3.) If you need a ride, ask your family and friends, and if you can’t find one, don’t just throw in the towel. Google. Lots of local campaign or party offices will help find you a ride to the polls if you need.
4.) There is no campaigning allowed within 100 ft. of a polling place (in some states the boundary may be less than 100 ft). If someone is trying to influence or intimidate you on your way into the polls, ignore them, head on inside, and report them to a poll worker.
Also, a couple things to keep in mind so you don’t get into trouble when you head out to vote:
1.) Do not wear any political paraphernalia to your polling place as you can be turned away for this. This includes t-shirts, hats, buttons, stickers, etc. As mentioned above, you are not allowed to campaign within a certain distance of a polling place and wearing political clothing counts as campaigning.
2.) I know you’re proud of your vote (as you should be), but please remember not to take a picture of your ballot. Depending on your state, this could be illegal and/or negate your vote.
Finally, if you have any issues or witness any voting violations and your poll workers aren’t willing to step in, you can report violations to the Civil Rights Division of the Department of Justice. You can do that here or you can call 800-253-3931. The DOJ can send poll watchers to make sure the system is working properly. As they say, if you see something, say something.
Trump voters: Don’t forget, according to your candidate you guys vote on November 28th. So you can go ahead and wait.
For finding your polling location/hours:
– This site doesn’t always have all of the information you need right on the site, but for every state it gives you the link to your state’s government election page for more information. Granted, some states have much more comprehensive election pages than others, but you should at least be able to find your polling place.
– This site is a little more comprehensive in its own right, but doesn’t have all the information for every state. However, this site does link you to more information about the candidates, which is kind of cool.
For finding out what will be on your ballot:
If the two sites above do not show you what will be on your ballot, you can locate that information here. It’s good to know this ahead of time, so you can go into your polling place prepared.
Happy Voting!
-Carley & Lianna-
Merriam-Webster Definitions:
Authoritarian
1: of, relating to, or favoring blind submission to authority <had authoritarian parents>
2: of, relating to, or favoring a concentration of power in a leader or an elite not constitutionally responsible to the people <an authoritarian regime>
Dictator
1a : a person granted absolute emergency power; especially : one appointed by the senate of ancient Rome
b : one holding complete autocratic control
c : one ruling absolutely and often oppressively
The thing that scares me most about Donald Trump (other than his bigotry, racism, Islamophobia, homophobia, misogyny, and general disdain for and lack of respect towards anyone who isn’t him) is his similarity to authoritarian “leaders.” It seems as though Donald Trump is not in fact running to be President of the United States of America, but rather he is running to become Dictator of the Divided States of America. Please do everything you can (most importantly voting) to prevent him from even getting close to his goal. However, in the event that he is elected, we have to trust that our Democracy and our Constitution can protect us from the vast dangers of Donald Trump.
In doing research for this post, I learned that authoritarianism is on the rise in America and the Western World. There are two things fueling an American acceptance of authoritarianism. The first is the increasing fear of people who don’t look like oneself. The second is that America is becoming younger and more liberal, so the older, more conservative people feel more desperate than ever to protect their traditional values. So, upon learning that, I realized I needed to talk about authoritarianism and why it is scary and bad and why we should not be increasingly accepting it. Encyclopedia Britannica starts its description of Authoritarianism by describing it as “blind submission to authority, as opposed to individual freedom of thought and action.” Authoritarian governments concentrate all the power in the hands of one or a very small number of people. Those in power are not responsible to their people and they usually exercise their power arbitrarily. Anyone who tries to defy the authoritarian government and/or create an opposing party or form of government is usually “taken care of.” They may be arrested and given an unfair trial, arrested without trial, or they may even be killed. Now that we know the definition of authoritarianism and how it is applied, let’s look at Donald.
It has been widely accepted that torture is ineffective for numerous reasons. This seems obvious to me, but apparently it isn’t obvious to everyone. So, let’s examine why torture is ineffective. In doing this, let’s overlook the obvious and excruciating inhumanity of it for a second. Google torture (or read the linked article) for graphic descriptions and I’m sure you’ll get through about one paragraph before you can’t read anymore without puking. Many detainees who are tortured have no information at all, so we torture these people for prolonged periods of time and get no information. Not because they can withstand torture – despite what the movies tell you, very few people can withstand torture (hence the creation of cyanide pills) – no, we get no information because they have none to give. Now, the other problem with torture is false confessions and false information. Let’s imagine a scenario. You’re being waterboarded or otherwise abused (many times to near death) and finally a CIA agent says to you, “Tell me where the next attack is going to be and we’ll stop.” You don’t know of any planned attack, after all you are a very lowly guy on the al Qaeda totem pole (or you are completely innocent), and yet you blurt out, “Boston! We’re going to attack Boston!” The CIA agent, who just told you he’d stop torturing you, then tortures you again and says, “When? Tell me more.” So you say, “Five guys with suicide bombs will be attacking various locations in Boston. That’s all I know! I swear!” Now, because of your made up confession, the CIA is wasting their time looking for five suicide bombers in Boston. It may be their own fault, but it’s a waste of resources nonetheless.
Now let’s get back to the topic at hand: Donald. Donald says of torture, “Would I approve waterboarding? You bet your ass I would. In a heartbeat. I would approve more than that. It works. And if it doesn’t work, they deserve it anyway for what they do to us.” Let’s break down this statement. Despite overwhelming evidence that waterboarding does not work, Donald says it does? Why? Because when you are an authoritarian leader you get to make up the facts. Science and research go out the window. Next he acknowledges that, okay, maybe waterboarding doesn’t work, but he thinks “they” deserve it anyway. I remind you that the article above says that numerous innocent people were wrongly detained and tortured, so when Donald says “they deserve it anyway,” he means, “Muslims and other people who don’t look like me, who may or may not be guilty, deserve to be gruesomely tortured without a fair trial because they don’t look like me and I don’t like them.” The Sixth amendment of the United States Constitution gives people the right to a fair and speedy trial by jury. This is a principle that this country was founded on. Yet torture is essentially convicting people before they have gone to trial. But Donald sees no problem with convicting someone without giving them a trial.
In fact, he feels so strongly about it that he wants to jail his political opponent, despite the fact that the FBI and numerous congressional committees have found that she committed no crime. He also at one point told the gun-toting Americans to “take care of her.” In an attempt to save himself, he tried to claim that he wasn’t telling them to kill her, but what does that sound like to you? You know who else wants to jail and kill their political opponents? Dictators.
Authoritarian leaders have absolute power. In America, we have three branches of government to create checks and balances on each other. No one branch of government can get out of hand because the other two are there to check them. Donald doesn’t want checks and balances; he wants absolute power to do whatever he pleases. For example, he wants to kill the families of ISIS members. Countless ISIS members and other extremists have mothers who denounce their involvement with these terrorist organizations. But Donald wants to kill them anyway. So now, not only is he convicting people without trial, he also wants to convict and execute people’s families without trial. People, this is out of control.
Lastly, Donald ignores the Constitution of the United States of America. You know, that pesky document that constitutes (See what i did there?) the foundation of our government and our country. The First Amendment of the United States Constitution is freedom of religion, speech, and press. Let’s take a look at Donald’s views on each of these.
Freedom of Religion: Donald wants to institute surveillance on mosques, make all Muslim-Americans register their religion with the government, and ban all Muslims from entering the country. That doesn’t sound like freedom of religion to me. Oh, what’s that you say? He thinks freedom of religion means freedom to be Christian? Oooh. Well, he is wrong.
Freedom of Speech: John McCain, Sarah Palin, Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton. These are the names of some presidential and vice presidential candidates who went on SNL to laugh at themselves after having been made fun of by SNL. Tina Fey did an uncanny impersonation of Sarah Palin, so Sarah decided she wanted to get in on the fun. Amy Poehler played a caricature of Hillary Clinton, so Hillary Clinton went on the show for a good laugh. This year Alec Baldwin played a caricature of Donald Trump on SNL and Donald then called for SNL to be shut down… very mature. In 2015 when Donald went on SNL he tweeted “Amazing Evening at Saturday Night Live!” But as soon as SNL made fun of him in 2016 he tweeted “Watched Saturday Night Live hit job on me.Time to retire the boring and unfunny show. Alec Baldwin portrayal stinks. Media rigging election!” Would now be a good time to mention that thin skin of his again?
Freedom of Press: For much of 2015 and 2016 Donald had a ban on several legitimate news organizations. The banned organizations included the Huffington Post, the Daily Beast, Politico, BuzzFeed, and The Washington Post, among others and they were not allowed press credentials for his news conferences or campaign events. Donald only lifted the ban in September of 2016 because banning The Washington Post, one of the country’s most prestigious and fair newspapers, caused significant backlash with voters. Christian Johann Heinrich Heine summed up authoritarian states perfectly when he said, “Where they burn books, they will also burn people.” Calling to shut down SNL and taking away news organizations’ credentials are modern versions of book burning.
Another Constitutional Amendment that Donald just doesn’t care for is the Fourth. You know, the amendment that prohibits unreasonable search and seizure and requires search warrants based on probable cause. Donald supports the practice of Stop and Frisk, a practice by which law enforcement stops whoever they want (minorities) with no just cause and no warrant and searches them. It’s a practice that was ruled unconstitutional (Thanks, Fourth Amedment!) but Donald doesn’t care. He wants to reinstate it. How does this relate to his authoritarianism? First, he wants to negate personal freedoms and commit a police act that has been deemed unconstitutional. Second, he doesn’t understand that once something has been deemed unconstitutional by the court, the President can’t just go reinstate that policy. In fact, he doesn’t understand the Democratic principles this country was founded on at all.
Donald thought the system was rigged against him… until he started doing better in the polls. Well, isn’t that convenient? And Donald has not said that he will accept the results of the election if he loses. In this country, we vote for our leaders. We peacefully transition power to the candidate the people elect and the candidate who does not win respectfully concedes. Donald does not want that to be the case. He wants to take the power even if he loses and he wants to abuse the power. Fellow Americans, please do not elect a man who doesn’t understand and wants to topple the very principles this country was founded on.
Now, I have to sign off from writing this post to go canvass for Hillary Clinton and Maggie Hassan!
~Lianna
Let’s start with a clip from my favorite show, Parks and Recreation.
In this episode, Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler) is getting attacked for not participating in a pie-making contest with the wife of her husband’s Congressional opponent. She’s a busy lady with a demanding job of her own and even though she bakes a mean pie, she’s got better things to do, but no one seems to understand that. First she gets attacked by the family values people for not supporting her husband, or for acting like she’s better than stay-at-home moms. Then she gets attacked by the women’s rights people for not taking a strong enough stand against the outdated tradition. No matter what she does, she can’t win. I think that’s representative of what so many women in government go through and it’s why I’m so glad that Hillary Clinton’s nomination could make it easier for more women to get into politics.
First, some numbers. Since the first session of the United States Congress in 1789, 46 women have served in the Senate and 278 women have served in the House of Representatives. Some of these women served in both houses, which leaves us with 313 individual women. To put that in perspective, 12,178 people total have served in the Senate and House. In a country that is generally about 50% female, only 2.6% of our elected representatives have been women. Even today, there are only 104 women in Congress, or 19.4%. WTF, America?
A recent episode of the NPR podcast Hidden Brain sought to determine why there’s been such a profound lack of women in government and they attributed it to what they call the “double bind.” This is the issue that Leslie Knope dealt with during Pie-gate. Basically, women are damned if they do and damned if they don’t. Hidden Brain interviewed Carol Moseley Braun, who was elected to the U.S. Senate in 1992 as the first female African-American Senator. She thought that racism would be a bigger hindrance to her election – after all, in 1992 America was 51% Female but only 13% Black – but she found that wasn’t the case. She told Hidden Brain, “I think in some regards the gender biases are more profound and more central to our culture than even the racial ones, and that to me was the surprise.” She recalled a cartoon in a newspaper that showed her campaign manager with his hand up her dress, implying that she was a puppet of her male campaign manager (though in light of the Donald Trump Access Hollywood video, there are certainly other implications). She won her race and proved that she was not just a puppet, but then there was another problem. In order to be an effective leader – which we hope our elected representatives are – you have to be strong and assertive, but these are not qualities that are very highly valued in women. When Moseley Braun spoke passionately on the floor of the Senate shortly after her election, “all her colleagues could hear was a shrill black woman.”
You might dismiss this as just one person’s experience, but a study by psychologists Madeline Heilman and Alice Eagly looked at gender and leadership and found that women who were noted to be successful were viewed as unlikable while women whose level of success was not specified were viewed as less competent than their male counterparts. With this in mind, it’s easy to understand why there aren’t more women in politics. If a woman is running for the first time against a male opponent, she’s likely to be viewed as less well-qualified. If she does prove herself competent and manage to win, she’s liable to be seen as unlikable when it comes time to run for reelection. I don’t think many women would be surprised to find this out. We’re not dummies. We already know that our every move is going to be watched and dissected as soon as we step out in public. So why on earth would we want to open ourselves up to any more criticism than we have to? A Pew Research poll conducted in 2014 found that only 25% of people who reported having run for office were women, and honestly I’m surprised it’s even that high. Women running for office receive less support from political parties, fewer donations, and more discrimination. I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t apply for a job if I knew up front that I would get little to no support through the application process and face prejudice and personal attacks even if I got the job.
To the women who have applied for the job anyway, I salute you. These women have pushed aside considerable obstacles and let the courage of their convictions carry them through tough times, humiliating times, and painful times. They have recognized that if our country is going to continue to be an example for the rest of the world, we can’t ignore the viewpoints of half of its citizens. Women can introduce new solutions to old problems; we can come up with ideas that would never occur to a male legislator who hasn’t walked in our shoes; and we can approach complicated diplomatic issues in sober, restrained ways. After all, we’ve been restraining ourselves all our lives. (This shouldn’t need to be said, but I’ll say it anyway because apparently some people need to hear it: No woman has ever started a war because she was on her period, and that is never going to happen. Cramps suck, but even at their worst, we recognize they’re not as bad as war.)
Obviously we need more women in government, but so many women and girls have never had a role model to encourage them to get involved. Even Massachusetts, liberal stronghold and champion of underdogs, didn’t elect its first female Senator until 2012. So regardless of whether she wins on November 8 (Please, please, please vote!), Hillary Clinton’s nomination has already begun to change the game. I guess we won’t really know right away what effect she’s had, but for a new generation of girls, it won’t be a question whether a woman can run for President because a woman already has. They won’t wonder whether their dreams of being President are out of reach. They won’t have to worry that a female candidate could never be taken seriously. Things are different for these girls, and they’ll make it different for the girls following them. There’s still so much work to be done, so much progress left to be made, but in ways both big and small, the tides are beginning to turn. I was listening to a podcast this morning where a male host said something along the lines of, “In 4 years, the next man who runs…” before catching himself and adding, “Or woman.” It’s not a given anymore that candidates for President will be men. And that’s a great thing.
– Carley
Part 2: Why Hillary Clinton Is So Much More Than “The Lesser Of Two Evils”
Note: This post is a little on the long side, but we appreciate you taking the time to read it. We tried to shorten it, but Hillary Clinton’s life has been so impressive, it’s hard to do her justice in just a few paragraphs.
Now that we’ve talked about why supporting Hillary Clinton isn’t a bad thing, let’s talk about why it’s a good thing. I trust Hillary Clinton to be my President. In fact, I’d like for Hillary Clinton to be my President and I’ll tell you why. She’s been serving the public and fighting for good her entire life and she will continue to do so as President of The United States of America. Throughout her career Hillary has shown that even if you don’t support her or vote for her, she will still fight to protect you and your rights. Don’t believe me? Let’s take a look at what she’s done so far.
Hillary Rodham Clinton was raised with conservative values by two hard-working Republican parents. She worked diligently throughout her public school education and was admitted to Wellesley College, where her classmates would go on to select her as the first student commencement speaker. While introducing her, the president of the college described her as “cheerful, good humored, good company, and a good friend to all of us…” This goes to show that even at a young age, she was widely acknowledged and respected for her hard work and positive attitude, and she has managed to maintain that positivity even when facing difficulties both large and small. For example, the freshmen at Wellesley were required to carry heavy trays of milk, water, and food to the dining tables. While most students complained about this task, Hillary joked that it was good exercise.
While in college, Hillary expanded her worldview and began to develop a passion for social justice that has persisted throughout her career. Her fellow students at Wellesley College even predicted that Hillary would become the First Female President, so let’s prove them right! Hillary and her fellow students grew up in a time of segregation, so for many of them, college was the first time they had an opportunity to have meaningful interactions with people of other races. Hillary’s friend, Janet Hill, was one of only 8 black women in her freshman class, and she remembers the culture shock she felt upon arriving at a predominantly white college campus. She also remembers Hillary making her feel welcome. Even though Hillary’s only interactions with black people up until that point had been with employees of her parents, she did not “other” her non-white classmates. Another of her classmates, Nancy Gist, has said that one of the things she liked about Hillary was that she seemed less “mystified” by her black classmates than did many of her white peers. The discrimination that her black friends faced upset Hillary, so she lent her support to their efforts to encourage school officials to recruit more black students and faculty and establish an African American studies major in a letter to the administration. Her new experiences and broader knowledge of the world helped to shape her current political beliefs. At Wellesley College Hillary started to transform from the Republican her parents sent to school to the Democrat we know today.
After graduating from Wellesley College, Hillary went on to attend Yale Law School, where only about 15% of students at the time were women. In a “Humans of New York” post in September, Hillary described the sexism she faced as one of only a few women taking a law school admissions test. She remembered many of the men in the room saying things like “You don’t need to be here” and “If you take my spot, I’ll get drafted, and I’ll go to Vietnam, and I’ll die.” This experience and others in her early career contributed to her tendency to keep her head down and just do the work, which is a quality that many perceive as aloof or cold. But I think most women can relate to the phenomenon Hillary describes here; I know I can. Show emotion and you’re considered weak. Maintain a calm exterior and you’re considered cold or uncaring. I was in a job once where a boss offended me by yelling at me in an unprofessional and condescending manner. I wasn’t sure what to do. I had heard him yell at another woman like this and when she got upset with him he described her as “mentally unstable.” So I knew that if I said something he would just see me as “emotional” or “crazy,” so I kept my head down and got back to work, just like Hillary and so many other women have been forced to do. By most accounts Hillary is warm and welcoming in her personal life, but her early experiences in a male-dominated industry taught her to be tough in her professional life.
While in law school Hillary took a summer job with the esteemed children’s rights activist Marian Wright Edelman researching the problems faced by migrant farm workers and their children, which is when she first started to realize that children needed her help more than anyone. She took an opportunity to help children again when, shortly before her graduation from law school, Hillary went undercover in cities across the South to determine if private schools were discriminating against black students.
In 1973, Edelman founded the Children’s Defense Fund (CDF) and Hillary went to work for her as a staff attorney. Her first project was going door-to-door to collect testimonials about schooling options for children with disabilities. The testimonials she collected helped in the passage of a law requiring Massachusetts to provide quality education to students with disabilities. Throughout her time at the CDF she rose through the ranks to become a board member and ultimately the board chair at a still very young age.
After moving to Arkansas, Hillary joined the Rose Law Firm, where she would eventually become the first female partner at one of the oldest legal firms west of the Mississippi. Shattering glass ceilings since the 1970s, anyone? She continued to practice law even after becoming First Lady of Arkansas while also pursuing other ventures that would help aid women, children, and the less fortunate. As First Lady there, she made it her mission to improve Arkansas’ healthcare and education systems. She co-founded the Arkansas Advocates for Children and Families, one of the first organizations to fight for children in Arkansas.
When her husband, Bill Clinton, became President in 1992 (fun fact: this is something she predicted to her boss in the 1970s when she was just his girlfriend), Hillary took the opportunity as First Lady to continue her work on behalf of women and children. In a speech to the UN in 1995, Hillary famously argued for the importance of a focus on women’s rights by saying, “Human rights are women’s rights, and women’s rights are human rights.” She also advocated strong support of the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP), which was created in 1997 and which now provides health insurance to over 8 million low-income children. The late Senator Ted Kennedy said in 2007, “The children’s health program wouldn’t be in existence today if we didn’t have Hillary pushing for it from the other end of Pennsylvania Avenue.” She did all of this even as issues in her marriage became painfully exposed on the national stage. Some have said that Hillary’s decision to stay with her husband and support him through his impeachment trial shows that she’s a Lady Macbeth type who will do anything for power. I disagree. I see the difficult decisions Hillary made at that time as proof of her commitment to her family and her love for them. Public sympathy for her was extremely high; she didn’t need Bill in order to be successful and she could have gone on to a successful political career without him, but she loved her husband and wanted to make her marriage work. Even now, it’s obvious that Hillary and Bill have a deep affection for one another. If you need proof go back and watch his face in the audience when she was being praised by speakers at the Democratic National Convention this year. Pure pride and joy.
In 2000 Hillary continued to break down barriers when she was elected as the first female Senator from New York. In the wake of the 9/11 terrorist attack, then-Senator Clinton helped secure over $20 billion in funding to rebuild New York City and introduced a bill that was later signed into law to help first responders who got sick from working at Ground Zero obtain quality health care. She co-sponsored the Pediatric Research Equity Act that requires drug companies to study the effects of their drugs in children. She also co-sponsored the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act of 2009 that states that the 180-day statute of limitations for filing lawsuits on equal pay violations resets with each new paycheck, thereby granting more women the opportunity to pursue judicial recourse when they find out that they are being compensated unfairly. These are just a few of Hillary’s accomplishments as Senator, but they provide a look into her priorities and demonstrate her desire to do all that she can to help anyone who needs her as well as her ability to work across party lines.
Finally, when President Obama asked Hillary to serve as his Secretary of State, she did not hesitate because he had beaten her in the 2008 Democratic Primary; she simply said yes and got to work serving the American people. She visited 112 countries in 4 years, making her the most-traveled Secretary of State in history. And people say she doesn’t have stamina! Hah! She negotiated a ceasefire in Gaza between Israel and Hamas. She fought for the rights of women and girls abroad. She is widely credited with restoring international relationships that had been damaged during the preceding 8 years and improving the United States’ standing abroad.
And with all of these accomplishments under her belt, Hillary says that it is her role as mother and grandmother that makes her most proud. Awww. Hillary Clinton is an inspiration to women everywhere. She shows us that feminism doesn’t have to be the working moms vs. the stay-at-home moms. That whatever we choose to be – Mother, CEO, or both – that choice is our right and we can be successful in everything we do. Her idealism has a long history and is genuine, and it shows that idealists can make good things happen in the world.
Hillary’s long history of public service is seen as a bad thing by some, but in fact it makes her one of the most well-equipped people to assume the role of President. Her work in government has taught her how to work with both allies and opponents to do the most good possible. After defeating him in the Democratic Primary, Hillary did not necessarily need to listen to Bernie Sanders, but she recognized that he had good ideas with broad support and worked with him to come up with the most progressive platform in party history. In addition to listening to her opponent from the Primary, she has spent the 18 months of her campaign traveling across the country listening to regular families and average people about the challenges they face so that she could put together a platform that will help all Americans. She also earns the respect and loyalty of those around her. Her running mate, Tim Kaine, has defended her tooth and nail through the campaign. He has not been arguing that he will make a great vice president; he’s been arguing that Hillary will make a great president. That says a lot about both of them, but it especially speaks to how highly Tim Kaine thinks of Hillary Clinton and how much respect he has for her.
When you’ve had as successful and high-profile a career as Hillary has, it’s natural that there would be some bumps in the road along the way, but Hillary has worked throughout her career to help others and to make the world a better place. This is a quality I admire in her, a quality I find inspiring, and a quality I seek to emulate in my own life. I trust Hillary Clinton to be my President and I’m confident that, if elected, she will continue to earn that trust every day. Hillary Clinton has been breaking down barriers and shattering glass ceilings left and right throughout her career; I think it’s time that we help her shatter the highest glass ceiling in America. Hillary says ‘Stronger Together’, because she knows that no one alone can create change in this world. So, let’s go create some change together.
-Lianna & Carley-
P.S. Thanks again for reading this all the way to the end. We hope you got something meaningful out of it and can now say, “I’m With Her.” We’re excited to vote for Hillary Clinton for President of The United States and we hope you are too!
Part 1: How Sexism Has Made You Buy Into Trumped-Up (no pun intended) Controversies
A quick intro from Lianna: I don’t self-identify as a feminist; I have trouble with the word “feminist.” But throughout this election I’ve been bothered by the sexism behind the Hillary Clinton “trust issue.” About a week ago, I watched a video in which Senator Elizabeth Warren urged viewers to speak out and talk to strangers about this election. I was inspired by her words to write a post about why I’m voting for Hillary Clinton. I brought this idea to Carley and here’s where the idea has taken us.
Listen up, undecided voters, because I’m talking to you. (If you’ve already voted or you’ve decided who you’re voting for, you can listen, too.) This is an important election and there’s a lot at stake. Most years, we have two qualified candidates who could both do the job. You may completely disagree with one of them, but if they won, they wouldn’t break America. Unfortunately, that’s not the case this year, so it’s important that we make the right choice.
You may be a conservative and therefore opposed to everything Hillary Clinton stands for. That’s valid. I don’t share your views, but I respect them. If that is you, then please get involved and try to save your party, because Donald Trump is dragging it down. Regardless of whether Hillary Clinton doesn’t represent your politics or she does and you just don’t like her, I implore you to read on and please don’t ignore the fact that her gender might be influencing the way you feel about voting (or not voting) for her. Think about the reason(s) you don’t want to vote for Hillary Clinton. You probably aren’t coming up with “She’s a woman,” but we’re all influenced by the views of the societies we live in, and sexism is rampant in American society. So while you probably didn’t come up with “She’s a woman” as a reason not to vote for her, the reasons you did come up with are likely influenced by Hillary Clinton’s womanhood. So let’s take a look at some of those possible reasons.
1.) Benghazi. What happened in Benghazi was a tragedy. Four Americans lost their lives on September 11, 2012 and perhaps more could have been done to prevent that from happening. However, as The Atlantic reports, the Republican-led House committee investigating Benghazi “did not find any evidence of wrongdoing against Clinton” and instead attributed the attack to a lack of preparedness. Furthermore, while I in no way mean to make light of this tragic incident, it could have been worse. While Hillary Clinton was Secretary of State from 1/21/09 through 2/1/13 (4 years), there were 7 attacks on U.S. diplomatic facilities resulting in a total of 8 deaths (not including deaths of the attackers). In the 4 years before she took office, there were 6 attacks resulting in 21 deaths. And in the 4 years before that, there were 6 attacks resulting in 24 deaths. Benghazi was terrible, but you can’t say it was Hillary Clinton’s fault unless you’re also willing to say that it was Condoleeza Rice’s fault that 2 Yemeni civilians died when a mortar round aimed at the U.S. Embassy hit a nearby school in 2006, or Colin Powell’s fault that 12 Pakistani civilians died from a truck bomb outside the U.S. Consulate in 2002.
2.) The emails. Hillary Clinton has acknowledged that her use of a private email account and server was a mistake and she has since apologized for it, even though she’s hardly the only one to do it. While serving in government roles Colin Powell, Karl Rove, Sarah Palin, Scott Walker, Marco Rubio, Rick Perry, Bobby Jindal, Howard Dean, and Jeb Bush (among others) all used private email accounts to conduct government business. Like Clinton, Jeb Bush also used his own private server. Nobody is perfect, including elected officials. We can’t hope for perfection. All we can hope for is that they learn from their mistakes and do better in the future.
But, maybe you don’t care about those things, or you believe that they shouldn’t be disqualifying. Maybe you just don’t trust her. If that’s the case, you’re not alone. A CNN/ORC poll conducted in July found that 68% of those surveyed said Clinton was not honest and trustworthy. Only 30% said that she was honest and trustworthy. A CBS News poll conducted around the same time found similar results with 67% of respondents thinking Hillary Clinton was not honest and trustworthy compared with 29% who thought she was. If you’re a part of that majority that thinks she’s dishonest, it might surprise you to find out that Politifact – an independent, nonpartisan fact-checking organization – disagrees. Politifact rates statements by various politicians, pundits, organizations, etc. Statements can be deemed True, Mostly True, Half True, Mostly False, False, or Pants on Fire. 51% of rated statements made by Hillary Clinton have been True or Mostly True, with only 27% being rated Mostly False, False, or Pants on Fire. Now, you might be thinking that 51% truthful isn’t that great, and if she were your friend, you might be right. But she’s a politician, and there’s a reason that the first things that come to mind when most people hear “politician” are liar, cheater, sleazy, etc. Politicians are notorious for saying what they need to say to win over whoever they’re talking to at the time and for bending the truth to fit their needs, but Hillary Clinton is more honest than most.
Hillary Clinton tells the truth 51% of the time. That’s not great, but it’s better than current president Barack Obama (48%), Libertarian presidential candidate Gary Johnson (44%), House Speaker Paul Ryan (35%), House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (17%) and Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump (15%). Politifact is a relatively new site (launched in 2007) so most former presidents haven’t been rated, but let’s assume they’d be in that 40-50% range with Bill Clinton (49%) and Barack Obama. Most people didn’t say, “I can’t vote for [Nixon, Reagan, Bush, Clinton, etc.] because I don’t trust him.” So, why is trust suddenly such an important part of this election? Because Hillary Clinton is not a “him.” She is a woman, and as a woman she is held to impossibly high standards.
We expect women to be like Carol Brady, the matriarch with a heart of gold from the Brady Bunch; Princess Diana, beautiful, open, and generous; or Tami Taylor, Friday Night Lights’ truth-telling, advice-giving, always supportive wife, mother and guidance counselor. We expect a woman to be pure but not a prude, good but not self-righteous, and honest but not too honest. God forbid she tell us something we don’t want to hear. Women are expected to tell the truth but are then punished when they do. We are holding Hillary Clinton to a higher standard than any of her male counterparts and it isn’t right. Why should she be judged for what she’s said when all these men were judged for what they’ve done? And what she’s done has been impressive, but we’ll get to that. Whether or not you vote for her should be based on her platform and what she stands and fights for. Hillary Clinton should be judged as a politician, not as a politician who happens to be a woman.
If you’re still reading this and you’re still undecided, please go take some time to think about whether your indecision is being influenced by the fact that Hillary Clinton is a woman. Are you holding her to a higher standard because of her gender? Do you expect more from her than you would from any other politician? If a man made the same mistakes that Hillary Clinton has, would it prevent you from voting for him? It’s hard to admit that we may have some sexist tendencies, but it’s important to confront the hard truths and to try to be better. So let your mind open up to the idea of a Hillary Clinton presidency and then come back in a few days for Part II, where we’ll talk about why the woman is pretty darn great.
-Carley & Lianna-
Update (10/30/16): In light of the recent letter from FBI Director James B. Comey to Congress, we felt that we should update this post to explain why these new emails are irrelevant. The new emails that everyone is talking about came from the computer of former Congressman Anthony Weiner, whose estranged wife is a top aide to Hillary Clinton. Congressman Weiner is being investigated for sending sexually explicit text messages to a minor, not for anything relating to Hillary Clinton’s emails. There is no evidence to suggest that these new emails actually pertain to Hillary Clinton. Any negative stories you are hearing from Donald Trump or Fox News regarding these emails are just that: stories, rumors. Mr. Comey deliberately sent his letter to Congress before FBI agents had a chance to comb through the emails and decide if they are relevant at all to the Hillary Clinton investigation. Thus his letter was incredibly vague, allowing Hillary’s opponents to spin the letter and create drama where there is none. This decision was irresponsible and has people worrying about something that may not have to do with Hillary at all. The FBI has already closed her case saying that nothing illegal was done and there is no evidence to suggest that Mr. Weiner’s recently discovered emails relate to Hillary Clinton. So, please do not fret over the “new emails” you keep hearing about.
Please see this New York Time’s article for more information.
I first posted this on my personal Facebook. I usually try to keep my political views and politics in general off of my Facebook page, but this election is too important to sweep under the rug. This election isn’t even about politics anymore. It’s not about the issues (it should be, but unfortunately it’s not). This election is about morality and decency. This election is about the role model and the leader that The President of The United States needs to be.
Regardless of your political views, regardless of your party loyalty, please watch First Lady Michelle Obama’s speech from the other day. This is a speech that everyone needs to hear.
Men get raped too and we can’t ignore that fact. But with regards to this election, let’s talk about women for a minute. *According to RAINN, 1 out of every 6 American women has been the victim of an attempted or completed rape in her lifetime. When you consider that “attempted rape” includes some, but not all, sexual assaults, you can see the scope of this problem. I assure you that you know someone who has been sexually assaulted. Also according to RAINN, 99% of rape perpetrators will not go to jail or prison. They state that perpetrators of sexual violence are less likely to go to jail or prison than other criminals. Sexual assault and rape are clearly very prevalent and serious issues in America today and under no circumstances can we elect a man who has bragged about sexually assaulting women as the President of The United States. This is unacceptable.
Whether or not you trust Hillary Clinton, she has shown that she respects all people. In contrast with her opponent, she has spoken and acted throughout her life in a manner that shows that she has the empathy and decency to lead all Americans. Hillary Clinton has made it very clear that as President of The United States she will fight for you and she will represent you even if you don’t vote for her.
If you’re considering voting for Jill Stein or Gary Johnson, please pay special attention to what The First Lady says beginning around 21:00.
On November 8th we are lucky enough to have the chance to choose the direction we want our country to go in for the next 4 years. Please do not endorse Hate, please do not endorse Bigotry, please do not endorse Racism, Sexism, Fear, or Bullying. Instead use your vote and your voice to endorse Love, to endorse Hope, to endorse Respect for all Americans, Freedom for all Americans, and a United America.
*To learn more about RAINN please click here. For more statistics on sexual assault in America please click here. RAINN thoroughly explains at the bottom of each statistics page where/how they get their statistics.
~Lianna
Post updated on 10/24/16 with more accurate statistics regarding rape and sexual assault in America.
We are Carley and Lianna, two sisters who discovered one day that we both wanted an outlet to talk about the things that occupy our minds on a daily basis and neither of us had any idea how to get started with a blog. So we decided that two heads are better than one and figured we’d try it together.
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